In-session guide

The six-step arc

A simple shape you can return to every session — adapted by you to the child in front of you. Safety first, language without demand, then a small step toward identity.

  1. 1

    PILA cards

    Safety first — the foundation everything is built on. Non-verbal entry; the child can point rather than speak.

  2. 2

    Feelings-intensity scale

    A non-verbal check-in. The child points to where they are, before any talking is asked of them.

  3. 3

    Anchor cards

    “I am enough.” “I belong.” The child picks what feels true — language offered without pressure.

  4. 4

    Modal verb cards

    The child picks a starting phrase — I could, I will, I might — setting how far they're ready to go.

  5. 5

    Power-action cards

    One card the child chooses, often to take home. Their choice — agency stays with them.

  6. 6

    Modal sequences

    The three-stage arc: modal verb → power card → identity. A chosen action linked to who they're becoming.

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